HOW TO BE HAPPY IN A RELATIONSHIP

                                                                        RELATIONSHIP

           HOW TO BE HAPPY IN RELATIONSHIPS BY DOING SOME SUBTLE THINGS

We all want a happy relationship.But don't have an idea to where to start with.We all have been taught that happiness is something which is predestined.Then how can we be happy in relationships?Is being happy in relationship is so difficult?Where to start with?

Relationship is something which we get by birth so whatever happens we cannot change them.If there is any annoying parent we cannot change them,disturbing sister we don' have any option to change them....but there simple steps by which we can make change in ourselves.

SHOULD I COMPROMISE IN RELATIONSHIP:

Lets take a look in our relationship.Whats the reason why its not as smooth as YOU want to be?Its due to lack of convincing and expecting how they are .Don't compromise just except.Stop expecting if you start expecting in a relationship then some day the person cannot fulfil your expectation then your relationship is going to suffer.If anyone stop expecting then there thoughts are going to be positive.Which in turn is going to change the energy field of the relationship.

BEING STABLE IN DIFFICULT TIMES:

Relationship is all about staying together and enjoying each others company.But what has happened between that you cannot enjoy that company?If you want to be happy stop expecting.Expecting is the mother of all disappointment.Ditch disappointment by stop expecting.It can be done by simple meditations.Whenever any kind of wrong thoughts enter your mind just keep on breathing a bit longer hold the breath in and exhale.By doing this technique you can be stable in any situation.Breathing is every thing.

ATTACHMENT STYLE:

Your attachment style can ruin your relationship.Everyone wants to get attached in any relationship,but attachments gives the most of the pain.Lets take an example of mother and child:mother gives birth to a baby ,nurture that baby,feeding,schooling and whatever she does for her child now the mother wants her child to be a doctor but child wants to be a teacher.Whenever the child gets to know what the mother wants he will just try to get away from her.If any of them creates a feeling of hatred,disrespect,disgrace,unhappiness then that relationship is going to suffer.

RESPECT EACH OTHER:

Respecting each other in relationship is very important.Give each other some space.Giving space in relationship is the most important aspect which everyone misses out.YES,its the missing spot.

Me and my husband are the best friend ever.We share each and every details of our day with each other being in spiritual path we both follow some routines.First thing me make sure is we don't get attached to any thought.We just let it go,we forgive each and everyone whatever mistake they have made and we do it together so that we can boost up each others positive thoughts.This has changed our lives,many of the person who did something wrong are now our friends we changed each others thought about those people.So we get to know through this journey that we just have to respect the other person without thinking what he has done to us.

SEND THEM THE THOUGHTS YOU WANT THEM TO FEEL:

Here comes the exciting part to be happy in relationship.Just create a thought which you want them to feel and send them.Within few days that soul is going to get touched with that thought.The best time to do this is in the morning after you get out of bed and before going to bed(I CAN PROVIDE YOU THE WHOLE WAY TO CREATE HARMONY IN RELATIONSHIP).Whenever they don't behave properly just make sure to create a positive thought.

Think over it!!!!!